Oh, sweetiebun, I'm sorry I complained about it in someone else's LJ. If I thought you were going to read it, I wouldn't have, if that helps at all, but I thought I was safe because you'd defriended both of us.
You don't have to friend me. I don't friend everyone who friends me, and I don't usually mind if I'm not friended when I friend someone. I understand the need to cut down on one's LJ reading. Especially to defriend someone who rarely posts anyway! There's a knee-jerk "ouch", but I blame LJ for this, for calling it a Friends List in the first place ... perhaps something more neutral would soften the blow.
And now we all feel guilty! Maybe we should start a supernatural detective agency in search of redemption.
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Date: 2005-02-21 08:38 pm (UTC)You don't have to friend me. I don't friend everyone who friends me, and I don't usually mind if I'm not friended when I friend someone. I understand the need to cut down on one's LJ reading. Especially to defriend someone who rarely posts anyway! There's a knee-jerk "ouch", but I blame LJ for this, for calling it a Friends List in the first place ... perhaps something more neutral would soften the blow.
And now we all feel guilty! Maybe we should start a supernatural detective agency in search of redemption.
(I'm sorry. Meep!)